Yesterday when I was really pissed on someone being a female I craved for some empathy…so phoned dad and bluntly blurted out my hatred .
His suggestion startled me a little…:) he said “ do not hate anyone as everyone has the potential of being good “.
What he said stuck me hard and I thought there have been quite a few time when people who were tagged as bad have been great to me. And offcourse some people who are tagged as very good have unexpectedly back stabbed me. Actually to be honest even I was not able to be consistently good to all people I know or met, even if unintentionally but I have been bad at times.
I believe none of us are perfect and we the imperfect people create this may be not so perfect but fantastic world :) And would any one of us will like to be hated? I guess-“ no !!” . Then why should we hate anyone. Shouldn’t all of us look beyond imperfection of each other and have neutral feeling if we can’t like/love anyone? Does ever hatred give birth to constructive dissatisfaction?
well, nobody's perfect :)
ReplyDeletedont forgive yourself. but forgive others... as they say, Always forgive your enemies--nothing annoys them so much :D
Hmmmm..... we can and shouldn't hate ourselves ...so u tend to forgive ourselves :)
ReplyDeleteWe should forgive our enemies but shouldn't forget them !!! ;)
We all love ourselves inspite of committing a hell lotta mistakes,so why cant we forget other's mistakes and move on??
ReplyDeleteWe do love ourselves inspite of committing hell lot of mistakes but that doesn't mean we forget our mistakes...often we remember them forever and that stop us from committing same mistakes again.... and when we realize we have committed mistake..
ReplyDeleteIts good to forgive other's mistake when they realized they have comitted mistake but if they haven't , its better to teach a lesson if there is an opportunity !!
I do understand nobody is perfect, and you should forgive forget.... blah blah.. But, make sure that you are not setting wrong exception. I went on to depression recently , just by forgiving and letting other sit on my head. ENDED UP IN ME HATING MYSELF.
ReplyDeleteDoing mistakes unknowingly is one thing and repeating it based on your response... is another.
"Being kind and nice(forget&forgive), is often mis leaded as being weak"
What say ?